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I Want My Boyfriend Back - Getting Him Back After A Break Up

'I want my boyfriend back'. It runs through your head constantly, occupying your every thought. Your heart is aching for him, just longing for you to be back together again. Even though the reasons for break ups vary far and wide, there are a few steps you can take that can help you get him back.

The first step is to be nice.

If I want my boyfriend back, I would be kind. Some people believe that clinging and nagging will get them what they want. The only thing you accomplish by doing those things is to drive him farther away. Treating him like crap will only reinforce to him that breaking up with you was the right thing to do. You will only create a greater divide between you. Treat him kindly, don't talk badly about him behind his back to your friends or anyone else. Do not be fake in your kindness.

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If you are thinking, 'I want my boyfriend back, and I don't care if I have to fake it or pretend to be something I'm not', stop right there. If you have to be someone you're not just to be with him, maybe you're better off finding a guy who likes you for who you really are.

If, on the other hand, treating him kindly is not a problem, then you can move forward with getting him back. Perhaps you could've been nicer to him before the break up. Was that part of the reason for the break up? If it was, decide now to change how you treat him. Did you take him for granted? Admit it and apologize, then follow your words with action and start being kinder towards him. Respect goes a long, long way to winning him back.

"I want my boyfriend back, how do I get him back if he has a girlfriend?"

One of the hardest things to overcome is when he has a girlfriend. Most likely it's a rebound relationship. However, this makes it hard to get time alone with him. She has his attention and you are part of the past. Do not go after her! Be nice to her as well. I know this is may be the most difficult thing to do, but you do not want to become the "psycho ex-girlfriend". That is very counter-productive when trying to get him back.

It's very important to be nice to him at this stage. He needs to see you the way he saw you when you first met. You were fun, light-hearted, and pleasant to be around. That's why he became interested in you to begin with. This will cause him to remember all the fun you had together and he'll start missing you.

"I want my boyfriend back, should I date someone else to make him jealous?"

This can at times work, but more often it backfires and does more harm than good. He may think that you have moved on and are no longer interested in him. He may see it as revenge on your part, something done only to get back at him and cause him pain. Also, it's rather cruel to your 'date' as well. He doesn't deserve to be the pawn in such a game.

Honesty is your best bet when you want your boyfriend back. If you feel that dating someone else will truly make you happy, then by all means do it. But, I don't recommend it just to make your boyfriend jealous.

"I want my boyfriend back, should I trick him somehow?"

Trying to trick him is a sure-fired way to lose him forever. Your deceptions and 'little lies' might get him back for a short time, but when he learns of your tricks he'll leave even angrier than before. No, deception and trickery are a very bad idea when trying to get your boyfriend back. Guys are not stupid, and like girls they don't appreciate being jerked around. That kind of game playing has never won a guys heart for long.

Be kind. Don't trash him to your friends or anyone else. Be honest. These things will move you along the path to getting him back.

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